There are a lot of informative posts here that are looking out for your best interests.
"What do you want?", is the most important of them, imo.
If I had my way, I too would do RS25, with a sti swap (that, or build the engine with sti pistons, crank, and rods. Then slap a VF, or turbo of your flavor on it and tune from there.
Just lock down what is important to you first, and then let us know. I guarantee someone on here will have the knowledge/expertise to help you along the way.
Budget ~ $2000 for your build (not saying you have to spend that much, but have it there on hand if you don't feel like shopping for the best deal) and you'll drive away happy.